How to do Transcendental Meditation (TM) and my experience doing it

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My journey with Transcendental Meditation

I have been meditating for more than 5 years now. In that journey - I’ve experimented with several techniques - guided meditation (using apps such as Headspace, Calm and Aware), and unguided meditations (Vipassana, ambient sounds, etc). However, I just wasn’t able to find a rhythm and keep up the habit. That’s when I discovered Transcendental Meditation.

It’s been close to 2 years since I got into TM and it’s the longest meditation technique that has stuck with me. I still remember my first week experimenting with TM and feeling that sense of innate calm and focus. It’s been my go-to technique to get a recharge.

I wanted to share my personal experience and knowledge of T.M. in the hopes that you try it for yourself and experience a technique that may be as beneficial to you as it has been to me.

What does Transcendental Meditation mean?

In short - Transcendental Meditation is an unguided meditation practice that is performed by silently repeating a mantra for 15-20 minutes, twice a day.

When people search for TM, they often bump into marketing copy from the official TM organization alongside skeptical Reddit threads. Here’s the reality I’ve observed: the technique itself is simple, portable, and rooted in the Vedic tradition. In the United States, learning directly from a certified TM teacher currently costs roughly $500-$1000. I personally don’t think you need to pay for a course to get started, but it’s helpful to understand how the official approach frames things.

They emphasize ease, twice-daily repetition, and a personalized mantra. The personalization part is what trips up most of us who want to experiment on our own, which is why I keep notes on traditional mantra families below.

Origins of TM

The TM meditation technique was created by an Indian Yogi - Maharishi Mahesh Yogi.

His goal with TM was for practitioners to achieve a “fourth major state of consciousness”. This fourth state is referred to in Maharishi’s Vedic psychology as transcendental consciousness (Maharishi, 1969; Orme-Johnson,1988) because it is said to transcend or be discontinuous with the three ordinary states of waking, dreaming, and sleep, as typically described conceptually and physiologically.

What are Transcendental Meditation Mantras?

The word mantra, derived from Sanskrit, translates to ‘mind vehicle’ (man = mind, tra = vehicle). In the TM technique, mantras are meaningless sounds. Their value lies in the quality of the sound rather than any special meaning.

Why should you try Transcendental Meditation

Plain and simple - Transcendental Meditation is the easiest form of meditation.

A lot of beginners of meditation are advised to do guided meditation as their intro to meditation. Personally, I tried numerous apps (Headspace, Aware, Ten Percent, etc) and while they’re helpful to understand the practice - they’re not as good as having control of your meditation at your own pace. TM requires no concentration, no control of the mind, and no mental monitoring. These aspects of TM make it perfect for beginners.

Moreover, TM can be performed anywhere - while you’re waiting in line, at busy airports, etc. All you need is your mantra. No phone, no apps, no internet.

Lastly, there’s a lot of research that supports that TM greatly helps in reducing stress and anxiety. You can read more about the research on TM’s benefits here. For a more comprehensive look at managing emotional health for longevity, see my notes on Outlive by Peter Attia.

Research that helped me trust the practice

Yes, Transcendental Meditation can reduce stress and anxiety, especially when you stay faithful to the classic 20-minutes-twice-a-day rhythm. A few studies that helped me feel confident about that:

My personal rule of thumb from all this reading: keep showing up for both sessions each day for at least a few weeks. Two weeks is usually enough to notice calmer afternoons; a full three months builds a cushion you can actually feel during hectic stretches. TM also seems safe – the trials above and others report no serious side effects – and younger kids can do it too, though the gains are smaller if they aren’t that anxious to begin with. Most importantly, the results beat simply sitting with eyes closed, so the mantra work matters.

Step-by-Step Guide to Choosing Your TM Mantra

The TM technique was popularized worldwide through expensive courses with teachers who guide you in choosing a mantra for your meditation.

As Maharishi Mahesh Yogi himself wrote in his 1955 book “Beacon of Light of the Himalayas”: “Any word can be taken…we find that any sound can serve our purpose of training the mind to become sharp.” While traditional TM courses may charge significant fees, the core principle is that the mantra should be a suitable sound that helps quiet the mind.

In my opinion, you don’t need to sign up for a course to get a mantra. You can start with any meaningless word that comes to mind, one that you feel sounds pleasant. Remember, the effectiveness of the mantra comes from its use in the TM technique, not its specific meaning or origin. Here are a few guidelines to consider when choosing a mantra:

  1. Select a meaningless, pleasant-sounding word or syllable.
  2. Avoid words with personal meanings or associations.
  3. Consider using traditional Sanskrit sounds like “eng,” “shirim,” or “kirim.” (These are phonetic spellings – no need to stress pronunciations.)
  4. If you’re not comfortable with Sanskrit mantras, you can use simple sounds that resonate with you.
  5. Experiment with different sounds to find one that feels natural and effortless.

Transcendental Meditation mantras list

Below is the reference table I keep in my notes. It mirrors the age-based groupings you might receive from an official TM teacher and keeps things simple when you’re choosing a sound on your own.

Age rangeCommon mantra sound
0-11eng
12-13em
14-15enga
16-17ema
18-19ieng
20-21iem
22-23ienga
24-25iema
26-29shiring
30-34shirim
35-39hiring
40-44hirim
45-49kiring
50-54kirim
55-59sham
60+shama

Note: These sounds are phonetic English approximations. If a mantra triggers memories or emotions, swap it out. Ease always beats dogma.

Understanding the practice

As mentioned earlier, the practice of T.M. requires two 15-20 minute periods per day.

For the first practice, you should ideally plan to do this right after you wake-up in the morning. Resist that cup of coffee when you wake up and perform your meditation before. You want to get into your meditation practice with a calm state of mind. Ideally, you should also be on an empty stomach.

For the second practice in the day, choose anytime between noon and 7 p.m. Personally, I’ve used T.M. as an energy boost in my afternoons. Its benefits are as good as a power nap if not better. Again you don’t want to do the practice right after lunch. Let your food digest and choose a time that works best for you. With the busy schedules we all have it can be hard to stick to the afternoon habit. What helps me is blocking time on my calendar and moving it around meetings scheduled.

Since this is an unguided meditation where you’re not using an app on your phone - how do you know when your meditation practice is over? Of course, there is the setting of an alarm on your phone for 20 minutes. However, hearing an alarm at the end of your T.M. practice can often be jarring to the mind and body. What you want to do is train your internal clock as you practice more and more. Start with an alarm clock, perhaps even check the time in the middle of the practice if you want to, but slowly your internal clock will get trained to know when your 15-20 minutes are up.

How to do Transcendental Meditation

Now, let’s get into doing the practice. I’ll run through a step-by-step procedure:

  1. Find a comfortable place to sit. Let your backrest against the chair or wall, but let your head be free. Your legs can be crossed or stretched depending on how comfortable you are. If you notice your head tilting forward during meditation, gently bring it back to an upright position if comfortable.
  2. Take a deep breath in and a deep breath out. Do this about 2-3 times.
  3. For the next 1-2 minutes - focus on all your senses. Hear all the sounds surrounding you. Move on to focus on the subtle smells that surround you. Next, focus on your sense of taste. The key is to make the transition to the mantra as seamless as possible.
  4. Let the mantra bubble up from the back of your brain effortlessly. The mantra is not supposed to be spoken out loudly, just repeated in your mind at whatever pace you’re comfortable with. Remember that mental repetition doesn’t need to be clear pronunciation - it can be just a faint idea. The mantra may change in different ways - getting faster or slower, louder or softer, clearer or fainter. Accept these changes naturally without trying to control them.
  5. If thoughts come, don’t try to push them out. When you become aware that you’re not thinking the mantra, gently and easily come back to it. Don’t try to concentrate or control your thoughts - simply favor the mantra innocently.
  6. Continue this for 15-20 minutes. As mentioned earlier, you can start with an alarm clock initially but your goal should be to let go of the alarm clock and use your internal clock to gradually come out of the practice.
  7. At the end of your meditation, stop thinking the mantra and take about 2 minutes before opening your eyes. This helps ease the transition back to regular activity.

The thinking behind most people is that their mind needs to be empty during meditation - that’s how they know they’re doing their meditation ‘right’. However, try to think of meditation as a mental exercise for your brain. Your brain will have random thoughts come in during your practice, but train it to get back to your mantra. The more you train it, the better your ability to focus becomes.

Remember you don’t need to be perfect with this practice. Just doing it every day is what matters. As you get deep into the practice of T.M., you stop needing an alarm for when 15 minutes is up.

What you can expect from doing T.M.

If you’re new to the meditation practice, you will realize that often your mind gets flooded with many thoughts during meditation practice. Don’t worry about them. Think of this as a cleaning-of-the-mind practice.

Sometimes it might feel that you have gotten carried away with a thought train for a long time- that’s completely okay. Remember, your goal is not to have a perfectly clear state. Your goal is simply to get back to the mantra as often as you can.

It’s important to note that if you experience any discomfort during meditation, it’s okay to stop. Only continue because you want to, not because you feel you have to. Like any practice, TM should be approached with gentleness and patience.

Mistakes to avoid when doing T.M.

The following are the key mistakes to avoid as you begin your T.M. practice -

Choosing a mantra that triggers thoughts

As mentioned previously, choose a mantra that doesn’t have a meaning. But say - you selected one and noticed in your early practices that the mantra is triggering other thoughts. In that case, choose another one. You’ll know you have the right one when your thoughts are being triggered not by the mantra.

Using meditation for contemplation

In our busy schedules, we often don’t get time to contemplate in the day. When I started the practice, I used my meditation practice time as a time to think about ideas or things that were bothering me. I realized soon that I wasn’t going anywhere with my goal to attain a focused and calm mind.

Don’t confuse meditation time with contemplation time. Take out additional minutes in your day to go out for a walk or however else you think works best to introspect and reflect on your day. It will be worth the time you spend on this and your meditation practice.

Too focused on attaining Zen

This is the most common and basic mistake that I hear from meditation beginners. “I’m not very good at meditation because my mind is always too busy.”

Well, reemphasizing my point earlier - your goal is not to attain some level of bliss. The harder you try to attain this, the further away you’ll get from it.

So give yourself room to be sloppy with your practice. Be nice to yourself. And realize that this practice is all about getting back to the mantra.

My experience with Transcendental Meditation

First few days

Few weeks of training

Currently

Common questions I get about Transcendental Meditation

Can I learn TM without a teacher?

Short answer: yes, with patience. I highly recommend resources like Emily Fletcher’s Stress Less, Accomplish More to build the habit. If you go the self-guided route, be extra gentle during the first few weeks – there’s no coach to reassure you that wandering thoughts are part of the deal.

What mantra should I start with?

Match your age range in the table, say the sound softly in your mind, and see how your body responds. If you tense up or the sound reminds you of something specific, switch to the next option in the list. I cycled through three mantras before landing on one that felt effortless.

How long did it take before I felt a change?

I noticed a calmer afternoon about five days in, and my sleep improved within two weeks. The deeper benefits – less reactivity when work got hectic – showed up after sticking with it for three months. Journaling tiny wins helped me see progress when my brain insisted nothing was happening.

Is TM the same as Vedic meditation or breath work?

TM falls under the larger Vedic meditation umbrella. The main difference is the ceremonial introduction and the specific mantra groupings. Breath work is a separate practice; lately I’ve been doing short box-breathing sessions before TM when I’m extra wired. If you’re curious about longer experiments, my one-hour meditation practice write-up covers how I stacked different techniques.

What if I can’t fit two sessions into my day?

For the first year, I treated my afternoon session like a non-negotiable meeting on my calendar. On heavy meeting days, I blocked 12 minutes instead of 20. Consistency matters more than perfection – missing an afternoon isn’t failure, it’s feedback to protect the next slot earlier.

Resources and Further Reading

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